Relationship

Assalamualaikum Mr. Mr.
Wahh, it's A NEW YEAR!!!!!
Happy New Year for you MR. Diary...HAHA!

You know, I've just realised how fragile a relationship is.
Ahhh, such a killer statement right!!! Well, yeah, that's it.

To make this into story, I asked my best friend about our relationship, well basically friendship.

Did she ever imagine how long our friendship will be?

This is what she told me:

"Intan, I've imagine our friendship is all about.
And I think we might be friend in such a long time, BUT we will be separated.
You know, one day we will find new friends that we're comfortable with..even better.
Right now we are comfortable with each other, but then what about next time.
You've mentioned before, when we're really close with a person, we will get hurt.
Then, let's use that quote to reflect our friendship.
Well, basically I don't want that situation happens to us, that's why when there is something
happen, and I'm the one who in fault, I will apologize to you straight away.
Based on my experiences and observation, that kind of situation might happen to us.
Even now, between us and Moon, we're facing the phase where conflict happens.
I'm not changing, i will be the way I am now. But, most of my friends, they have changed.
A lot.

When I reflect the conversation we've discussed, I kind of agree with her.
Even me, myself, I couldn't maintain my relationship with those old friends.
I couldn't blame them who leave me when me, myself did not put the effort to cherish the friendship,
right?

A friend cannot be considered as a friend until he is tested in 3 occassions:

1) In time of need.
2) Behind your back.                         By: Ali bin Abi Talib
3) After your death.


My opinion towards this discussion:
To maintain a relationship, we both have to strive for it. Not just a party doing all the works. That is not enough.
Nothing is impossible.
Allah will always bless a good thing.
Believe in that.
What can I say about our discussion just now, my friend is really matured, compared to me. Hmmm

p/s Babe, let's maintain for our relationship, no matter how. Aminn.